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Life · 20 December 2020

Expectations vs. Reality: A Personal Growth Reflection

The Archive Check: Looking Back at a Pivot Year

As we plan our future goals, there is immense value in looking back at the expectations we once set for ourselves. Pulling this post out of the archives from the end of 2020 offers a fascinating time capsule. Written right after a year of unprecedented lockdowns and altered plans, this honest review of my resolutions serves as a gentle reminder that progress isn’t always linear, and some of the best personal milestones come from simply adapting to change.

We have all been through seasons where our carefully planned timelines get completely thrown out the window. Usually, I’m the person getting my goal reflection posts up in the middle of February, so finally getting my act together to look back on time felt like a massive victory in itself.

When I sat down at the beginning of 2020 to set my goals, who knew we were about to experience a worldwide pause. Looking back at those resolutions from the other side of that year is an amazing exercise in shifting perspective.

From learning my way around the kitchen to embracing a more intentional beauty collection, here is my honest personal growth reflection on how my 2020 goals actually turned out.

Lose Weight

My weight fluctuated a lot throughout the year, but by the end of it, I landed right around the same place I started. Instead of beating myself up about it, I chose not to be upset. Having a healthy mindset means recognising that life happens, but knowing deep down that I have the capability and tools to reach my fitness targets when the timing is right. I’ve done it once, and I know I can do it again.

Continuing to Learn How to Cook 

If there was one standout highlight from this list, it was in the kitchen. While there is always more to learn, I spent the year creating meals I never thought I was capable of making.

There is something deeply satisfying about cooking a fresh dish from scratch rather than just punching buttons on a microwave for a ready meal. It became a hobby I genuinely enjoy, and the absolute biggest bonus was that, touch wood, nothing went horribly wrong in the process!

Completely Use Up a Powder Product

I wouldn’t exactly call this goal a failure, but progress was definitely slowed down by the circumstances. Spending months in lockdown meant my everyday makeup routine completely went on the back burner.

While I didn’t completely empty a single compact, I did manage to hit pan on a fair few powder products. It kept me focused on the ultimate goal of downsizing my collection and being more mindful of what I store in my vanity drawers.

Drink Less Fizzy Drinks

I’d say I had my fair share of good days and bad days with this, but it was definitely a massive improvement compared to the year before. Swapping out Pepsi Max for juice felt like a great stepping stone, with the next mission being a transition from juice to pure water. It’s all about taking things one manageable step at a time.

Shop My Stash

This was an absolute triumph that brought me so much joy. I barely bought any new beauty launches throughout the year. Choosing instead to dive deep into the products I already owned.

This approach is actually how I completely rediscovered my love for the Too Faced Sweet Peach Palette. Which quickly become one of my most used items of the entire year. It was incredibly refreshing to slow down. Appreciate the value of what I already purchased, and stop constantly looking for the next best thing on the high street.

The Value of Looking Back

Revisiting this archive reminds me that a true personal growth reflection isn’t about giving yourself a perfect scorecard. It’s about celebrating the practical skills you built. Recognising the areas where you showed flexibility, and finding contentment in the quiet wins. Life rarely goes exactly according to script, but looking back. I’d like to think I did pretty well with the hand I was dealt, even given the circumstances.

Let’s chat in the comments!

When you look back at past goals you set for yourself. What are the small, unexpected victories that you are most proud of? Have you ever done a “shop my stash” challenge with your own collection?

Thank you for reading!

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  1. CristinaR says

    20 December 2020 at 5:18 pm

    That’s a great idea to do! I always put goals for myself but never look at the end of it how I did! I’m glad you’re having fun in the kitchen xx

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    • luxuryblush says

      20 December 2020 at 7:54 pm

      I am so glad you think so! I think it’s so important to look back and reflect. Thank you xx

      Reply
  2. Danielle Beautyblog says

    20 December 2020 at 6:43 pm

    Sounds like a success to me! Well done Hannah! Xx

    Danielle’s Beauty Blog 

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    • luxuryblush says

      20 December 2020 at 7:55 pm

      Thank you so much!xx

      Reply
  3. Radi says

    20 December 2020 at 11:59 pm

    Me too.. I’ve done good at not buying things I don’t need like extra clothes or beauty products. Hope I can kind of keep this up in 2021 as well.
    Happy Holidays!

    http://www.fashionradi.com

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    • luxuryblush says

      21 December 2020 at 9:53 am

      So glad to hear you’ve improved as well! I hope you’re able to stick to it too. Happy Holidays xx

      Reply
  4. Della Driscoll says

    21 December 2020 at 11:25 am

    These are some great goals!! I love to cook and would love to do more of it next year, trying different recipes xx

    http://www.dellalovesnutella.co.uk/

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      21 December 2020 at 11:35 am

      Thank you I’m glad you think so! I hope you’re able to explore different recipes next year xx

      Reply
  5. nortoncharity says

    21 December 2020 at 11:46 am

    These are such great goals for 2020. I have the same one about losing weight. I need to eat healthier in the new year for sure!

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      21 December 2020 at 11:57 am

      I am glad you think so! Good luck, I hope you’re able to do it xx

      Reply
  6. Molly @ Transatlantic Notes says

    21 December 2020 at 1:35 pm

    I didn’t really have any goals for 2020 as some pretty difficult personal stuff has been going on the whole year but I am looking to making some for 2021. I have to think about them a bit more but I hope they will be useful, etc. I think you have done really well with your goals this year, congrats!

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 1:45 pm

      I am sorry to hear that, I hope you have an amazing 2021. Thank you so much, I appreciate it xx

      Reply
  7. Mariann Yip says

    21 December 2020 at 2:21 pm

    I love that you write 2020 goals because on my blog, I also list my monthly goals and it’s great to reflect to see what you’ve accomplished 🙂

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 1:46 pm

      I hope you do well with your monthly goals! It really is xx

      Reply
  8. katieemmabeauty says

    21 December 2020 at 3:30 pm

    I feel like, considering the year we’ve had, you’ve made some great progress!

    Katie | katieemmabeauty.com

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 1:46 pm

      Thank you so much! I appreciate it. I hope you have an amazing 2021 xx

      Reply
  9. Sakuranko says

    21 December 2020 at 3:36 pm

    Oh so nice that you learned How to Cook! Congratulations darling
    Merry Christmas!

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 1:57 pm

      Thank you! It’s such a great skill to have xx

      Reply
  10. Natasha Evans says

    21 December 2020 at 4:27 pm

    I never remember to keep track of any goals I set so I always forget if I’ve made any progress. I’ve definitely been shopping my stash more this year and I’ve managed to use up quite a few products which I’m pleased about!

    Tash

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 2:00 pm

      Ah, no way! That’s good to hear, it’s always nice to use what you have xx

      Reply
  11. Lisa's Notebook says

    21 December 2020 at 5:45 pm

    Congrats on smashing your goals – it’s been quite the year so you’ve done brilliantly. I don’t set goals any more because I get too downhearted when I don’t meet them but I love hearing about other people’s successes 🙂

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 2:00 pm

      Thank you, I’m glad you think so! I know what you mean, I used to be the same xx

      Reply
  12. lucymarytaylor says

    21 December 2020 at 5:53 pm

    I’m looking to losing some weight in 2021, I hope I’ll be able to stick to it! I love these goals you made at the start of 2020! x

    Lucy | http://www.lucymary.co.uk

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 2:01 pm

      Good luck with it! Thank you so much xx

      Reply
  13. alimackin2013 says

    21 December 2020 at 7:56 pm

    I know sticking to goals can be hard during a pandemic. But more time at home so more time to cook lol! And that is good to get away from drinks like coke and pepsi I NEVER drink this, it is very bad for you.

    Allie

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 2:03 pm

      It really can! That is so true, it’s been a good year of cooking haha! I know, it’s a bad habit xx

      Reply
  14. shannenadeline says

    21 December 2020 at 8:20 pm

    You´ve done so well on your goals, I loved this blog post idea !

    xo, Shannen

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 2:03 pm

      Thank you so much! I’m glad you like it xx

      Reply
  15. Lauren Kenny says

    21 December 2020 at 8:21 pm

    Well done!! Great to see some positivity at the end of this awful year. You should be proud 🙂

    https://www.wooloftheking.com/

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 2:04 pm

      Thank you so much!xx

      Reply
  16. Allison | thenutmegdiaries.com says

    21 December 2020 at 11:01 pm

    I feel your pain with fluctuating weight. It’s always a battle, and not an easy one. But any progress is good progress, and as you keep learning to cook, you’ll be able to do more.

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 2:05 pm

      I get what you mean, and totally agree with you! Progress is progress. That is such a good point xx

      Reply
  17. Francesca Louise says

    22 December 2020 at 1:05 am

    I love reading posts like this! I need to take some of these into my own life for 2021! xxx

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 2:11 pm

      I am so glad you like them! I hope you have an amazing 2021 xx

      Reply
  18. Kelly Diane says

    22 December 2020 at 5:54 am

    Well done on reaching some of these goals. I definitely agree lockdown has had an effect on so much, including some of my goals too.

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 2:12 pm

      Thank you! It was definitely a strange year xx

      Reply
  19. Lovely says

    22 December 2020 at 7:39 am

    Great job on your goals! Well done!
    xoxo
    Lovely
    http://www.mynameislovely.com

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 2:12 pm

      Thank you xx

      Reply
  20. Nic | Nic's Adventures & Bakes says

    22 December 2020 at 4:17 pm

    Thank you for sharing how you got on with your goals this year, using up products and buying less is on mine for next year 🙂

    Reply
    • luxuryblush says

      22 December 2020 at 4:19 pm

      It’s no problem, thank you for stopping by! I hope it goes well for you xx

      Reply
  21. tanjakofol says

    22 December 2020 at 5:45 pm

    I love how your goals were such that still completely obtainable despite the pandemic. I didn’t set any goals for my self, but my hopes to travel more and find more steady job in either hospitality or media got kinda push back by the whole situation.

    Reply
  22. marybugarski1 says

    23 December 2020 at 11:31 am

    These are such a beautiful goals. Thank you for sharing and Merry Christmas to you and your family.

    New Post – https://www.exclusivebeautydiary.com/2020/12/kilian-woman-in-gold.html

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  23. Merry says

    23 December 2020 at 12:06 pm

    Oh I want to learn how to cook >< have been planning to do it for so long! I definitely have to add this as my goal for next year. Thank you for sharing x

    Reply
  24. The Newbury Girl says

    25 December 2020 at 1:55 am

    You did a great job working towards your goals this past year! Hitting pan is a major accomplishment – next year I want to shop my stash more and do a better job using up more of my collection, too!

    Reply
  25. Lenne Zulkiflly says

    26 December 2020 at 3:45 am

    You’ve made some major progress and success, hunn! Good for you xx

    lenne | lennezulkiflly.com

    Reply
  26. juliaspeaks says

    30 December 2020 at 10:21 am

    I always love reading posts like these! It reminds me (and also thinking at my personal goals for 2020) that it’s okay when things don’t turn out exactly as we planned them so long ago. With the lockdown we must have all improved our cooking skills haha!

    Julia x
    Last Post: The Best Christmas Displays in Paris & Tips To Visit in the Winter ❄️

    Reply
  27. Alice in Sheffield says

    30 December 2020 at 1:47 pm

    It’s always good to reflect on goals!
    I think you’ve made great progress considering we didn’t know what the year would hold when you made these goals
    Here’s hoping 2021 has something better on the horizon

    Alice | aliceinsheffield.com

    Reply
  28. Melina Elisa says

    30 December 2020 at 7:19 pm

    You should be so proud at all you’ve achieved in 2020! It’s was such a difficult year, and for you to have accomplished quite a bit of your goals is amazing! I hope you’re even more successful with your 2021 goals 🙂 xx

    Melina | http://www.melinaelisa.com

    Reply
  29. Siobhán says

    30 December 2020 at 11:23 pm

    You did really well! I can’t even remember my 2020 goals but Covid wiped most of the year out for me so I don’t care about not achieving them – just being alive is enough for me! x

    Beautylymin

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